We preprogram many things in our lives to happen automatically. For many of those things we don't have time and capacity to think. Take for example, preventing kids from harming self. Kids are often clumsy and hurt themselves inadvertently. A typical mistake for them would be to drop something under a table, bend down to pick the thing up and while straightening back to bang their head on the table. Most harming is banging the head against a sharp corner of a table. In my houses I always cut corners of the wooden furniture to make it safe. When children are bending down, I typically wrap my palm around the corner so to soften their banging. After the incident happens, I explain to them how to avoid this trauma. Quite a while ago, my boss brought his children to work where tables had sharp corners. While we were talking, one of the kids dropped something and bent down. I automatically put my hand on one of the corners and the kid banged his head against my hand. My coworkers saw that I saved the kid from a possibly nasty trauma and I saw admiration in eyes of one of my friend. Later, when he begot his child, I noticed that he used the same trick to protect his child. Recalling this achievement makes me proud (one of our emotions).
I don't know how much this story is relevant to your life. I don't know if your furniture has corners. I am pretty sure that on your motherships the furniture is solid but much rounded. I may be possible that your children are psychic enough to avoid traumas. For many of you, I am pretty sure, you wouldn't need to use you hand to help the kid, you could mentally connect to them and guide them remotely. You could possibly use telekinesis to soften the blow and also you could temporarily make the table's corner disappear preventing the collision. If the trauma happened, some of you could possibly replay the scenario to avoid trauma and continue the life trauma-free.
I am pretty sure you wouldn't need to read admiration in the eyes, you may get it telepathically, possibly via the eyes, but not by guessing what people think. Finally, I am not sure you would become proud and that the pride would give you a warm feeling. We get a warm happy feeling when achieving something or remembering achieving something. We are also very dependent on admiration by others. This is called reward dependence. Most humans are very much reward dependent. We seek admiration and take admiration as a sign of love. We use words, gestures, facial expressions, touch to share the emotions of support, approval, admiration and other emotional messages. Due to reward dependence, flattery is very powerful with humans. Some are great fighters, great thinkers, may be resistant to many forms of deception but flattery often can deceive even those people. Bashar often flatter us emphasizing the great service we do to other civilizations by going our path of ultimate disconnection and materialism.
Dependence on approval is responsible for gullibility of humans and such as success of standardization and brainwashing by MIC controlled mainstream culture. People like to be compliant and are very afraid of alternative thinking. Thinking alternatively for many people feels very unhappy. They often choose to be wrong or avoid certain thinking topics only to be loyal to the mainstream. Since our thinking is a mess anyway, this is not too difficult to stay delusional and avoid slippery slopes ("slippery slope" is an expression for "dangerous topics". As one starts thinking of dangerous topics, than it is hard to stop and consequences can be bleak).
Much of automation happens on level of physical movements. This is very animalistic. These are developed reactions to stimuli, like many reactions in driving a car, avoiding trauma, playing sport games, and brushing teeth. Some other automations are linguistic. Like we typically use verbal formulas pronounced in our mind for arithmetic calculations. Same mechanism is very often used by people for many other practical approaches. Some people expand this thinking with verbal formulas to many areas of life. If they need to change their mind, they would look for an alternative verbal formula. We have plenty of verbal formulas to cover much of thinking in our daily lives. Mass media, upbringing, education, religion and science offer many of the formulas. Naturally mathematicians often use mathematic formulas to help thinking about life, chemists use chemical analogies, mechanical engineers use mechanical analogies, electrical engineers use electrical analogies and so on. (I believe aliens also are not spared of these biases). What we do effects how we think. Lawyers use the formulas of law and soldiers use the logic of fight in life. The profession and education affects much how we think. So when we are meeting a person, we reconstruct what is their profession and how they think so to improve our understanding of them.
This is a reason I recommend communicating with people who don't use deception negatively in their profession. Especially spoiled on my personal experience are people like ones in KGB who disrespect the law and consider self above it. Many MIC people are of this kind. I trust more housewives, artists, musicians, engineers and other laborers who make their living without relying on deception. Even actors can be good humans since they often use deception of acting in a good way to make the world better. Many actors have good personalities with strong integrity.
MIC = military-industrial complex