Falling in love is also very healing because the lovers become best friends, because they could trust each other completely and there is no need for deception. This is often first time in their life when people can be completely truthful to each other. This allows for healing the fragmented mind and feels very good, very healing. Much energy is released due to integrative process in the mind. It doesn't happen at once, but is a process of much talking, thinking and doing things. This process may last for a lifetime. Since many people believe they live only once, this may be the most profound experience in their lives.