Since we are not telempathic, we are disconnected from our collective consciousness. We know it exists only by circumstantial evidence, such as books by Michael Newton "Journey of Souls" and "Destiny of Souls". Humans have a very vague idea of our collective consciousness. Most humans rarely think of it. Therefore, we are very lonely. Our life is focused on our family and friends. Most humans are devoted to their family and friends, typically very few. Sometimes humans are projecting their loyalty to their religious group, typically small, their country, nation, professional guild, and other groups, but these ideas of loyalty are very vague and there is very little feedback between what the person thinks of the bigger group and what the bigger group is returning back. Most of these connections are more imaginary than real. For example citizens of a country are loyal to it, but their connection is more imaginary than real.
Some people are associating themselves with humanity as a whole. I typically think of myself as a citizen of the Universe; my loyalty is to all good beings and consciousnesses. Of course there are other people with the same Universal loyalty. Many of them are light workers.
I say: "Control can be hijacked. Be loyal not to people but to ideas."
Many people are loyal to God or Gods. More than half of humanity (over 3.5 of 7 billion) believe in Gods and are loyal to their Gods as they understand them. Desire for connection with God, an urge upward is very strong in humans.
Strangely, the love for the country is often manifested in xenophobia and wars; loyalty to God is manifested in hatred and wars with people believing in other Gods. Even people loving all sentient beings have trouble accepting individual humans. I joke: "Don't anger me; you interfere with my love for humanity". For a modern human it takes much self-integration work to accept all beings and to forgive negative deeds.